The Chick Whisperer Podcast

He's a fast talker, but he's equally quick on his feet. That can only mean my co-host Rob Judge from Date Hotter Women is a grand master at talking to women. In response to an avalanche of requests, this episode focuses on overcoming a massive stumbling block for most guys...what to say to a woman first when you're just starting a conversation with her. You want real, actionable examples? You got 'em...and it's way more than just a few. You'll shake your head in disbelief at some of the magnificent, genius ways Rob will help you avoid drawing a blank. Better still, whether you're writing a first e-mail to a woman online, meeting her in person or hammering out your first text to her, we've got you covered. And oh yeah...expect lots of real-world "been there, done that" advice straight from our in-field coaching sessions with guys. Rob and I may have different styles when it comes to meeting women, but that just means you get an even healthier smorgasbord to draw from. Love the show and want more? Sign up for t

Justin Stenstrom is the man behind both Elite Man Magazine and the popular Elite Man podcast. He and I made friends immediately, which meant it was a must to have him on the show. The unique topic on the table for this episode is facing fears and anxiety, dealing with them when necessary and--when you should--beating them over the head with a shovel until they stop twitching. Listen in to discover the simple truth that will help you get past habitual worry once and for all. Of course, we also talk about approach anxiety. Plus we'll define 'confidence' for you, before moving on to a no-nonsense breakdown of the fear of failure vs. fear of success. You'll also find out why post-modern life really brings LESS adventure for most people, and you'll get Justin's three-step process for conquering the fear that paralyzes you. Justin is running a big time conference in the Boston area this August, and I'm thrilled and honored to be a speaker at it. Find out all the details when you visit the show notes page at: http:/

My co-host, James Knight is also one of our newest team members here at X & Y Communications, along with Rob Brinded. He's a world-class expert in human movement with over 17 years of experience helping La Liga players, tour golfers and other athletes achieve peak performance. But most importantly for you, he also knows untold keys to training your body to be more attractive to women...all without you having to learn, memorize, do or even say anything. Discover how our brains unconsciously trigger love and sexual desire based on primal, animal instincts. Find out what James calls 'the deep essence of attraction', and how to keep your head in the game...quite literally. You'll also hear why our 21st-century lifestyle is killing our inherent attractiveness at a baseline, physical level. And perhaps best of all, you'll be treated to a class A rant on how attraction is dirty trick from God. You'll quickly figure out why we're so thrilled to welcome both James and Rob to the team. They straight-up know secrets

Johnnie Raines is a Hollywood casting director best known for working on reality television shows like The Bachelor. His latest project is called 'First Love, True Love', which will be bringing together couples who knew each other in the past but haven't seen each other in years. As soon as Johnnie contacted me about that, I immediately recognized it as a brilliant topic that has never been covered on this show. With the meteoric rise of social media it's almost impossible NOT to find yourself catching up with someone, if not everyone, you haven't seen in ages. So then, is it ever a good idea to rekindle an 'old flame'? And what about someone you've secretly desired ever since high school or college, but never had the chance to connect with in the first place? What are the chances it'll turn out to be true love instead of a major disaster? And if you do decide to go for it, how do you go about it? Plus, there's plenty of time to talk about reality TV in general, and even a chance for you to be on Johnnie's ne

Maybe you've seen the beer commercial that's been on sports channels lately where all the sexy women are 'holding out for a hero'. Weirdly, some guys are all up in arms about that commercial, somehow seeing it as an example of how men are disparaged in the media. But what's the problem? Isn't a man SUPPOSED to be a hero...especially to women? And as such, is it really a slap in the face for women to WANT us to be heroic? After all, not enough of us ARE these days. Here's what I think...we as guys have simply lost touch with what it means to be a hero, mostly because we have no idea what a hero even looks like. My long-time friend and co-host Justice Donnelly from Steal Her Heart agrees. What's more, both of us firmly believe that BEING a woman's hero is one of the most valid (and almost supernaturally powerful) ways to feel like a man. In this epic episode we talk about heroism and role models in a way you're guaranteed to have never heard before. Find out how heroes aren't without their faults, and why that'

If you're guilty of being a 'nice guy', you know how frustrating it is to hear women tell you they're 'just not feeling it'...right before they banish you to the dreaded Just Be Friends zone. But WHY does this happen...especially when all women ever talk about is how much they want to find a 'nice guy'? If you're who they really want, then why do so many hot, sexy women end up with idiots and jerks instead? Well, in this episode I'm joined by the host of the Nice Guy Dating Podcast himself, Kevin Alexander. Get ready for a completely different take on what's wrong with the 'nice guy' persona, and how you can get out from under it and start making women genuinely 'feel it' for you, for a change. I guarantee Kevin's revolutionary thoughts on this topic, combined with one of my more epic rants all-time, will conspire to get you out of the JBF Zone and into the hearts, minds and naughty fantasies of women everywhere. Are you getting my daily newsletters yet? They're packed with solid, practical steps for attracti

What...you didn't think I'd get some dude on this episode, did you? Of course not. You want straight facts from a woman herself, which is why I got one who's 100 percent woman all the time. That's none other than Shana James of AMP fame, who jumped at the chance to do this show. What more would you expect from someone who runs the men's Sexual Satisfaction Summit these days? After having coached thousands of men AND women, you're about to experience the clearest, most direct answers exposing the real truth of the matter. Do women REALLY like sex, or is that a big lie? Get ready for one of the most powerfully compelling (and hottest) episodes ever. Have you heard the brand new podcast Emily and I are doing together on action, adventure and world travel? If not, tune in here and give it a listen: http://www.wingitworldwide.com/podcast === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by

This unique episode kicks off with an exciting announcement. We welcome a new expert to the X & Y Communications team. That's none other than Trace Loft of Massage Your Date fame. Now Trace isn't a smooth talking pickup artist, but since he loves spending time with sexy women he needed to develop a way to get more of them in his life. What he's discovered (and now teaches) gets right to the heart of what WORKS with women. Listen in as Trace talks about how to make a woman feel comfortable with you, how to initiate physical contact and even what to do if she has unusually large breasts. We'll also answer the age-old question made famous by Pulp Fiction: Is a foot massage, just a foot massage? Count on this episode to challenge your mindset and empower you with a new perspective that just might bring more naked women into your world...just like it did for Trace. Oh, and most incredible part is that they'll love every minute of it. Have you visited the brand new show notes page? It's all here at: http://www.

I just met my co-host for this show, but I can already tell you she's out of control, over the top and probably a little bit nuts. But she wouldn't have it any other way, and neither would you. Get this...she's written over 500 different seduction scenarios, and is a multiple-time New York Times bestselling author as a direct result. In this episode, Laura puts me in the 'hot seat', wanting to test just how smart I am at this 'chick whispering' stuff. Geez, some of those questions she was brave enough to ask me required some of the quickest thinking ever in the history of the show. But let's just say she gets more than she bargained for, often to her uproarious delight. In all seriousness though, I was completely skeptical about the honey bit and the sex necklace...but hey, she made her point and I have to give her credit for some original ideas, which there are far too few of in this life. I still have no idea how she expected me to clairvoyantly figure out what that 'Oster-izer' thing was for, but let's jus

My co-host Susan Bratton is a really nice, classy lady. But underneath the 'Lois Lane' exterior of this CEO of Personal Life Media is one of the most active sexpert minds in the world today. When you listen to this episode, you'll immediately love her energy and her friendly style...and you'll definitely appreciate how committed she is to getting us as guys to be better in the bedroom. But WOW...it's the endless stream of bang-on accurate sex advice (pun intended) that will keep you tuned in. This episode is all about giving you the power to thrill the woman in your life with the most mind-blowing 'sex date night' of all time, sure to fry your girl's circuits and addict her to you. Let's just say somewhere Barry White is jealous. And hey, with a topic like this one you just KNOW that we brought our sense of humor along...so don't feel guilty if you find yourself laughing like you're back in school again. It's shameless, I tell you, particularly when Susan starts contending with me about how orange is the new

What do you get when you put two of the most experienced, devastatingly effective and fastest-talking dating coaches on the same episode together? If you guessed 'mayhem', you're not too far off...but in the best way possible. Let me tell you, David Wygant and I wasted no time getting to the good stuff. When the dust cleared...boom...there was some of the best advice ever recorded on audio about how to be a dominant male who attracts women like catnip. But before we got to all of that, we were sure to solve Dave's own most recent dating dilemma, rant pretty hard on what sells versus what really works and generally spit fire at about a dozen other poignant men's interests. Yes, plenty of what we covered is as controversial as it gets, but I urge you to hear us out. All I can say is that I sincerely hope you either write fast or have an amazing memory...no joke. Get a load of the brand new podcast portal page at: http://www.thechickwhisperer.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll kee

Just when millions of guys started thinking they could get the hang of online dating, along came Tinder and shook up everything. Mass mayhem ensued as the sexiest women imaginable started showing up on smartphones...only to NEVER materialize into real world dates. Well, if you can relate to that kind of pain, this is your lucky day. I've wrangled the stone cold gnarliest hombre west of the Pecos for this show...none other than Scott Valdez from Virtual Dating Assistants. Hundreds of guys literally outsource their online dating to Scott, and he delivers ridiculous results. So you gotta know he has guaranteed hot tips for pictures, profile, messaging and even how to move women from Tinder or Happen to in-person meetings in a flash. How is Tinder different than 'conventional' online dating? What mindset shifts do you need to be successful? And best of all, what are the killer hacks that will get women swiping right even as all the other guys shake their heads in frustration? Hang on, because there's a whole lot

My guest for this episode is likely to piss you off. But he's also probably going to save your life. How's that? Well, what you're about to hear flies in the face of virtually everything you've ever been taught about what to eat (and how to eat it) for maximum health. You're not going to like it. Like me, you'll probably have a strong urge to disagree. You might even think Matt is a total quack. But the thing is, his advice flat-out WORKS. You've got to hear what Matt has to say about bottled water, vegetable oil, potatoes, the right and wrong kind of probiotics, which eggs to buy and even leftovers. Also discover why two of the most basic staples of our diet are contributing to practically every common infirmity. Is that dry chicken breast really the way to lose weight? What's an even bigger enemy than cholesterol? What are the common dietary factors tied to longevity? And what are lectins, anyway? NOTHING is sacred, not even the beloved mantra that 'breakfast is the most important meal of the day'. Buckle u

Who knows how, but we've managed to go way too long around here without talking about approaching and talking to women. With that in mind, my guest for this show is one of the most well-known pickup artists of the last ten years or so. Given that his style of writing and talking about women has historically differed greatly from mine, I figured it was time to shake things up a bit and compare notes on how to talk to women and create attraction. Was what resulted a hot mess or did we end up seeing eye-to-eye more than expected? That's for you to find out in this latest episode...but you can bet on gaining tremendous (and even original) insight into how to spark conversation with women that makes them drop everything and adore you. Isn't that what it's ultimately all about anyway? http://www.thechickwhisperer.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (take

What can I say about my co-host for this episode? He makes decisions on a daily basis that hold lives of innocent children in the balance. He fights challenges that give others the chills--even if they only dare to watch from afar. Everyone he knows recognizes his rock-solid character and looks to him for direction and wisdom. His wife adores him endlessly, even as she confidently stands with him in the trenches. Not only have his daughters followed in his footsteps, so have their fiances. By now you're probably picturing a high-dollar family law attorney, elected official, pediatric brain surgeon or even a superhero. But Daryl is a self-proclaimed 'normal guy' just like you and me. Yet no matter what he says, he lives in an extraordinary world where he and his wife are basically the Mother Theresas of Guatemala. Listen as Daryl talks openly about how he makes the gut wrenching life-and-death decisions that most men would wilt under or run away from. Prepare to be left slackjawed by how he talks about being a

Known as Rasputin in Neil Strauss's book The Game, my co-host Eric Von Sydow has been teaching men the art of masculine power and attraction for over two decades, mentoring legends along the way. At long last he's on the show dropping wisdom on how to know what you want, giving yourself the best shot at getting it, and how to handle life's inevitable pitfalls along the way. The coolest part about this show was shootin' the breeze with a guy whose priorities couldn't be more different than mine on the surface, but whose overall philosophies are right on the same wavelength. As you listen to this unique episode, you're sure to be empowered with a new sense of freedom--especially when it comes to your lifestyle and the women you choose to share it with. Are you the last guy listening to this show who isn't getting my daily newsletter? If so, you're missing out on actionable content on how to get better with women, build your social circle and get ahead in the workplace: http://www.thechickwhisperer.com === HELP

My co-host for this show is Amy Waterman, whose first interview with me nearly nine years ago (still part of Deserve What You Want) became the stuff of legends. I'm excited to announce that she's back from a five year 'retirement' of sorts, and this is her very first foray back into the world of men's dating and seduction advice. As always, Amy has a weird but wonderful knack for understanding male/female interaction in a way few others do. Better still, she is especially passionate about making men uber-successful with women. Wait until you hear what she has to say about how to make women adore you before you even TALK to them, along with some powerful ways to charm women that leave them breathless. Plus, you'll get truly unique insights into how men and women think differently, and why knowing the truth is a 'silver bullet' advantage over other guys. And hey...just for good measure, why not a word on how to get a woman whose just had a boob job to show off for you? Man, you just gotta love a woman like Amy

It all started innocently enough, I promise. I had the occasion to meet sexy professional poker player Anna Khait because she has been interested in dating and relationship science lately. So naturally, I invited her to co-host the big show with me, originally with the idea of talking about how to read "poker faced" women. That in and of itself is a HUGE topic for a lot of guys, and fear not...we dropped a big heavy hammer on it. But things REALLY got out of hand when the the whole idea of strip poker came up. I wasted no time getting Anna to spill every expert secret she had, including her first-hand knowledge on how to get hot women EXCITED to play. Of course, you're also going to want to know how get the whole thing rolling to begin with, and EXACTLY what to do once it's going. Wait until you hear the practically ninja-proof strategies involved there. If that wasn't enough, we then dove off the deep end, bringing up the idea of skinny dipping. Do the same principles apply? And what about 'Spin The Bottle'

Bill and Ted once famously asked the evil version of themselves what number they were thinking of: '69, dude!' Well, that episode has finally arrived, and to celebrate this momentous occasion I got none other than fellow podcast host Angel Donovan of Dating Skills Review to sit in with me as co-host. The topic he's passionate about these days is FAST and EFFICIENT success with women, which sounded good to me. So in this action-packed show we hit the ground running with some CRAZY conversation covering what's potentially been holding you back from greatness with women (could it be physiological?), how to peg your personal power to the redline, how to end the cycle of going through one book or program after another without getting desired results, and even the unique but DEVASTATINGLY powerful steps I personally use with guys in-field that revolutionizes how many women they meet. (Yes I spill it ALL.) Plus we'll talk about why the booming #MGTOW movement is probably doing the OPPOSITE for men as they hope. To t

Let's say you wake up after the nightmare of a divorce or bad breakup. The rest of the world is the same, but somehow you're...different. If you can relate, so can I...along with this episode's co-host, Ben Adams. Hold on and get ready for a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT kind of show this time around. You see, Ben is the author of Six Months To Get A Life. This is no self-help book, but rather a novel about moving on after divorce. Better yet, it's flat-out HILARIOUS. Truth be told, Ben just went through a pretty gnarly divorce of his own so LOTS of what he writes about hits close to home. Let's just say you can count on us to throw all the craziest aspects of moving on after divorce out on the table. That includes (among other things) dealing with exes, unsolicited opinions from teenage offspring and mistaken identity on blind dates. Pour yourself a cold one and enjoy this show, it's got more than its fair share of laughs. As always, if you're not yet getting the daily newsletter jam-packed with valuable tips and hac