Synopsis
In order to get women, you have to understand them first. For over eight consecutive years, The Chick Whisperer Podcast from X & Y Communications has been the gold standard for men of character who desire high quality women. Scot McKay and his expert co-hosts talk women, dating, sex, seduction and 21st century masculinity in a fast-paced and often hilarious style. Ask whatever questions you want 24/7 via voicemail at +1 (210) 362-4400. Visit http://www.thechickwhisperer.com and get free, actionable tips in your inbox that'll make you better with women starting today. | Please subscribe to the show to get updates automatically, and if you love the show definitely leave a review!
Episodes
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Cars And Women, Not Necessarily In That Order - TCW47
14/09/2011 Duration: 33minFellow gearheads and connoisseurs of fine women rejoice... Joining me for this show is Matt Farah from TV's The Car Show on Speed Channel and head car nut over at thesmokingtire.com. We hit the ground running (or make that rolling) with a great voicemail question on which car to drive if you want to attract women, but you DON'T want to look like a pretentious prettyboy. Then we dive right into the subject du jour, talking back and forth about every single thing you can think of, as long as women and cars are involved. Which cars are 'girl cars' and should therefore be avoided? What should you do if you can't exactly afford a killer ride at the moment? And what if you're stuck with a station wagon or (God forbid) a mini-van? We cover all of that and more, including some surprising info on women and motorcycles and--best of all--how to make sure the DRIVER (that's you) is doing his part to generate massive attraction in women. If you haven't yet checked out the latest X & Y Communications program The Differ
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What To Do When You Have No Idea What To Say To Her - TCW46
17/07/2011 Duration: 45minMan, have you ever really WANTED to strike up a conversation with particularly sexy woman...but just drew a TOTAL BLANK? Or worse, have you ever actually STARTED talking to her only to somehow WRECK your chances--without even knowing what you said or did that messed everything up? Well, it's time to put all of those bad memories behind you forever. Joining me as co-host for this illustrious episode is fellow podcaster and dating coach Jordan Harbinger from Pickup Podcast--and we've got solutions for you that will leave you speechless. (Well, actually they'll do the EXACT OPPOSITE of that, right?) While we're at it we answer a voice mail from Nate in California who's just coming off of a LTR and is wondering how to tell when it's the right time for him to jump back into meeting and dating new women. Have you heard about the latest X & Y Communications program called The Difference? In it I finally fork over all of my very best secrets on how to be better with women at every level. Now that I'm 'retired' fr
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How To Be A Badass - TCW45
24/05/2011 Duration: 01h03minMost guys tend to suspect that men with POWER are the ones who get all the women. That can be social power, physical power, financial power and even intellectual power. But what if you're not exactly the center of your social circle, don't have the physique of a WWE wrestler, aren't exactly a Yale graduate and can't write a check for a million bucks? Can you still attract the women you REALLY want? The answer is a resounding YES...but you'll have to know how to harness your inner badass and introduce him to the world. Josh and I are going to show you how to do exactly that...all in the name of making the chicks go wild and scream your name (or at least one special one). Listen in as we also answer a terrific voicemail from Brian in Kentucky on whether he should try to get his ex back or go ahead and let his ex set him up with her hot friends instead, like she wants to. Wait until you hear our surprising answers to that one. If you haven't checked out the new Facebook page yet, head to www.facebook.com/scotand
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I Can't Get No Satisfaction - TCW44
24/04/2011 Duration: 53minWhy is it that so many of us as guys all over the world aren't having as much sex as we'd like to? I mean, even guys who have a woman in their lives tend to complain that they're not getting enough--and when it does happen it's a bit weird or even flat-out boring because she's not really into it at all. So the big question is this: If women love sex so much, as we're always told is the case, what's wrong with this picture? What's most frustrating of all is that this whole issue is particularly common when it comes to women giving us oral pleasures. Well, join world-class sexual satisfaction expert Michael Fiore and I as we talk about finding an 'oral fixation' for the problem at hand. We'll also cover other great ways to make women WANT the same level and frequency of sexual passion that you do...and how to make it happen. Wait until you see what's possible through text messaging alone. In addition, find out about Michael's recent appearance on the Rachael Ray show, and whether she actually looks good in pers
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From Same Night Lays To Long-Term Relationships - TCW43
19/03/2011 Duration: 58minSo what is a guy like the undisputed king of 'same night lays', Nick Quick, doing on a show like this? The answer is pretty simple, really. You see, Nick was just recently in an exclusive, monogamous relationship with a woman who really knocked his socks off. So wait a minute, here...why would a guy who can sleep with a different woman every night get a steady girlfriend? What led to that choice? And arguably the best question of all, was he able to make leave his previous lifestyle behind? We wanted to know! And sure enough, Nick covers all those questions and more...all in a twisting, turning discussion that eventually evolves into a full-bore expose on why, with whom and under what circumstances women choose to have sex. Fascinating stuff awaits, believe me. We also answer a voice mail from Ron in Louisiana on how to handle being with a woman who just might be 'on the rebound'. Wait until you hear the somewhat surprising words we have for Ron. Right now we need to hear what's on YOUR mind as far as the fut
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How To Make Her Laugh...And What To Do When She Cries - TCW42
16/02/2011 Duration: 53minWe already know that women all over the world love a guy with a sense of humor, right? But is 'having a sense of humor' necessarily the same thing as knowing how to make her laugh? Stand-up comedienne and dating coach Elaine Davis sits in to discuss the finer points of this all-important topic, and I'll give you a hint: Sorting through all of this might not be as complex as you thought. Find out why being 'funny' isn't always your instant ticket to success with women, as so many dateless professional comedians can attest to. Instead, you're about to discover all the true (but not always obvious) secrets to bringing a smile to a woman's face in the most attractive way possible. In particular, listen closely toward the end for a powerful 'silver bullet' that all but eliminates the dreaded 'try too hard' factor. By the way, while we're at it Elaine and I answer a voicemail from a listener who has a question that reflects the flip-side of today's topic...what to do when the woman in your life plays the 'crying ca
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Anywhere BUT Bars And Clubs - TCW41
09/01/2011 Duration: 51minYou've been asking for more on what's commonly known as 'daygame', and you've got it...all courtesy of this action-packed episode. Joining me this time is none other than Andy Yosha frokm the UK, who just so happens to be a world-class expert on meeting women anytime, anywhere. So how about it? Are you ready to expand your horizons beyond the bar and club scene insofar as meeting women goes? Or have noisy, smoky bars and clubs never really been your thing to begin with? Either way, not to worry. Get ready for some GOLDEN knowledge on how to meet women on the street, in coffee shops, in the airport and, well...anywhere else you'd like. Pay careful attention as I even reveal how to get a FREE special report on how to meet women at the supermarket. While we're at it, Andy and I answer a voicemail asking how to handle those 'awkward silences' that tend to come up when making conversation with women. If after listening to this show you still crave even MORE terrific strategies on how to meet high-quality women, be
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There's Something In The Way She Moves - TCW40
30/11/2010 Duration: 52minAnd now, it's time for something completely different. Listen in as none other than movement/attraction expert Rob Brinded joins me for a truly unique discussion on why a woman can move in a certain way and make us completely hot for her on the spot. Who knew there was both art and science behind it all? What's more, here's some great news: All of this is NOT gender specific at all. Discover how to be sure you're making all the right moves (literally) when it comes to attracting women the natural, primal and EASY way. How come nobody else is teaching this stuff? Who knows...but you're about to come face to face with how powerful the knowledge you're about to gain can truly be. Plus, we answer a question from Micah in South Dakota on how to handle sticky situations with woman who just won't take 'no' for an answer...yet another 'high quality' problem solved by your friends from the world famous Chick Whisperer podcast. Enjoy. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, action
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Are Women Really Touchy About Being Touched? - TCW39
01/09/2010 Duration: 57minOK, so you've got her in front of you and she seems to be attracted to you. And man, you can't wait to get your hands on her. But should you wait anyway? Or should you 'escalate kino'? It's seems like a tricky call to make, no doubt. On one hand, if you go in too early you're likely to get slapped or something. But on the other hand, if you wait too long she's going to think you lack the guts to make a move like a real man should. Well, once and for all my man Bill Preston and I do what we can to take the 'trickiness' out of figuring out when--and exactly how--to touch a woman. The truth of the matter is that women really do LOVE to have male hands all over them, and if you can read their hints all the confusion just melts away...kind of like her heart. Good stuff. Head on over to www.themansapproach.com and get your FREE REPORT called '5 Things Women Wish You Knew When Approaching Them'. It's all yours, with my compliments. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, action
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Quit Making Everything So Complicated - TCW38
15/05/2010 Duration: 52minBased on the type of e-mails we get, I can tell you that most guys are straight-up making the process of approaching and meeting women WAY more complicated than it has to be. Most of us over-analyze even the idea of approaching a woman to a fault, and assuming we ever dig ourselves out from under that we then rely on a massive system of rules, sequences and 'if/then' strategies that end up just derailing us instead of helping us reach our goals. Well, here's the simple truth: Approaching and meeting women doesn't have to be NEARLY as complicated as you think. Brad and I show you the disarmingly simple reasons why--all the while discussing the finer points of why meeting women is like sales, among other things. Plus, we take a voice mail from Craig in Colorado on how to build a social circle from scratch and hit it with a big, heavy hammer. Be sure to get in on the X & Y Communications newsletter by visiting http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/ and score your copy of my latest special report called, 'Get The
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MILFs And Cougars - TCW37
21/03/2010 Duration: 56minWhat inspired this show? You and your e-mails did, that's what. Besides, any man who's been around the block knows all too well that there's way, WAY more to life than 21-year-old hotties. Single moms and older women can seriously have it going on, and in this episode you're going to learn expert secrets on how to attract those women make them respond powerfully to you. Admit it...you know you've been wanting to learn this stuff for ages. Finally, you've got two guys who have the first-hand experience in this department throwing everything out on the table that you need to know. Plus, get the lowdown on how Lawrence from Santa Monica (and you also, for that matter) can get into a physical relationship with a woman without her wanting to 'mate for life'...and it isn't nearly as complicated as you think it is. Check out http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com to find out where the X & Y Communications World Tour is headed next, and how you can get your hands on a new special report absolutely f-r-e-e. === HELP US
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Live An Inspired Life - TCW36
08/02/2010 Duration: 47minWe've all heard time and again about how women want a man who lives an exciting life. Even more, they are insanely attracted to guys who can impart some of that excitement to THEIR lives also. Enter Adam Gilad. Adam, who you may also know as Grant Adams, has been igniting femininity rampantly all over the world for years now...and it's all because he has become a man who's life is nothing short of, well...inspired. Discover exactly what that really means as Adam and I share strategies and stories that will leave you nothing short of psyched to go out and live the dream for yourself. Plus, we answer a voice mail from Ross in the UK who is wondering how and when to kiss a woman on a first date--after all, a man's got to make sure not to get too pushy and freak her out, but he also can't 'fail to deploy' either. Wait until you hear the surprising answers we have for Ross. Make certain to subscribe to the newsletter at www.chickwhispering.com and get a FREE special report on how to get the first date AND the seco
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Getting Women To Approach You - TCW35
23/11/2009 Duration: 52minWho else but 'The King Of Let 'Em Come To You' should be my co-host for this episode? That's right...join me for this RARE (and certifiably rambunctious) audio conversation with John Alanis on how to actually get women to approach YOU first. Sound crazy? I know it did to me. After all, we talk about the importance of growing a pair and getting over 'approach anxiety' all day long about here. So what gives with all this talk about getting women to do all the 'heavy lifting'? Well, I hope you're sitting down for this but as it turns out John and I are on the SAME PAGE...completely. Tune in to see how this can be possible, and how to work it to your maximum advantage. You're also in for a truly perplexing voice mail from Corey in Pittsburgh who can't seem to get a woman to call him back after what he was sure was a mind-blower of a date...wait until you get the full scoop on this after Corey calls in with a LATE BREAKING UPDATE. Outrageous. Finally, be sure to grab my newest SPECIAL REPORT called 'How To Get The
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Is Marriage For Chumps? - TCW34
06/11/2009 Duration: 52minWe're joined by none other than Adam Lyons for an upfront discussion on marriage--all from the perspective of two guys who are both happily married AND professional dating coaches. No question is off the table as we talk about monogamy vs. open relationships, the right and wrong reasons to get married, why dating more women now means a stronger marriage later, and more. Pay particularly close attention when Adam gives you step-by-step details on how he went from AFC to living the good life with his favorite woman ever. And YES...whether you're thinking it's time to find a wife or you've all vowed never to tie the knot, be sure to listen up...there's something in this episode for everyone. Plus, we answer a voicemail from Andre in Indiana about a woman who seems interested, but is still keeping him at arm's length. What's up with that? === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up'
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Are Women Really So Hard To Figure Out? - TCW33
06/10/2009 Duration: 40minOn the auspicious occasion of the long-awaited launch of Chick Whispering, the book (and now complete program) inspired by this podcast, I invited none other than Wing Girl extraordinaire Marni Kinrys to join me for what may be the definitive Chick Whispering discussion, superseding all others. Listen in as Marni talks about some absolutely primo ways to figure out what's on a woman's mind--quickly and easily. We also delve into some of the deeper issues as to why so many people prefer to flat-out give up on MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) rather giving a fair shot to figuring them out. Also, we tackle a terrific voice mail from Donovan in New York city on dating older women. For more on the new Chick Whispering e-book, stop by http://www.chickwhispering.com for an intro I've produced that explains it all. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes
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How To Choose The Right Woman - TCW32
10/08/2009 Duration: 42minTake it from two guys who've been there before and have the scars to prove it. Making the RIGHT DECISION when it comes to which woman to invite into your life for a long-term relationship is not just mission-critical, it could literally make or break your ENTIRE LIFE. Join my co-host David Shade and I as we talk about what exactly to look for in a woman in order to evaluate her LTR potential. And just for good measure, we also tackle a great e-mail from a listener who is considering making a 'friend with benefits' into his steady girlfriend. If you haven't taken a look at what's included in The Master Plan lately, you're in for a BIG surprise (and it's a good one): http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/special === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up' by rating the show (takes one second) and leaving us a review. As we say here in Texas, we appreciate you!
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Supernatural Connection With Women - TCW31
16/07/2009 Duration: 49minSure, most of as guys all want to build rapport with a woman and experience a genuinely deep connection with her. But have you ever stopped to consider that there could be a level of connecting with women that FAR exceeds what you've ever even imagined was possible? Join me along with my co-host Bryan Bayer from AMP as we share some truly crazy thoughts and wild stories--all in the name of empowering YOU to 'hyper-natural' relationships with the greatest women on Earth. While we're at it, we respond to Chad in Pittsburgh's voicemail question about how to relate to women from Asian cultures...especially if they don't speak English all that well. By the way, there are NEW ADDITIONS to The Master Plan, so visit http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan to check 'em out. Remember also to claim your copy of my FREE book on how to meet women on Twitter: http://www.twiduction.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love wh
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Women Are NOT The Enemy...Make Them Your Allies Instead - TCW30
24/06/2009 Duration: 40minIt's easy to lapse into an 'us versus them' mentality when it comes to women, especially when one's focus is off. Join Nick Sparks and I as we talk about how to get what you want from women WITHOUT feeling like you have to win a game of 'keep away' to do so. Prepare for some surprising insights that are flat-out unheard of in the Seduction Community, but which have been field tested with great success. Gentlemen, this episode is ALL ABOUT how to enjoy FAR GREATER satisfaction in your relationships women than you've ever dreamed possible...WAY, WAY beyond sex alone. If you haven't checked out The Master Plan yet, visit http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan. And if you haven't snagged up the FREE book on how to meet high quality women on Twitter, the time is now--more and more women are joining EVERY DAY: http://www.twiduction.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you love what you hear, please give us a 'thumbs up'
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What If 'Be Yourself' Was Good Advice, For A Change? - TCW29
23/04/2009 Duration: 46minHow many times have you ever been given the advice to just 'be yourself' in order to attract more women? Yeah well, what if 'be yourself' ISN'T WORKING? You know how it goes, 'keep doing what you've always done and you'll keep getting what you've always gotten.' Listen in to this very special episode Alan Roger Currie (aka Mode One) and I break down exactly how to take back your birthright as a REAL MAN and portray the 100% authentic version of your best self. Fair warning, though...get ready for some seriously straight talk on this matter. For the complete toolkit on being the highest quality man you can be--and attracting the highest quality women as a result--check out The Master Plan at http://www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan. It's brand new. And while you're there, be sure to watch the recent video interview I did with my friend Kya on what women REALLY want from a guy. There's also FIVE MORE free videos for you when you log in. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the
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Is She Interested In You? - TCW28
03/03/2009 Duration: 25minOK, here's a 'pop quiz'. There's only one question, so this is 'pass/fail' all the way. What is THE most important factor when you're talking to a woman for the first time? Well, our co-host--the legendary Doc Love--says it's HER INTEREST LEVEL IN YOU. And guess what? According to Doc, that REMAINS the most important factor as long as you're in a relationship with her. And he may just be on to something here. After all, this guy has been at this dating and seduction advice stuff since 1964...that's 45 YEARS for those of you without a calculator handy. So get ready to kick it 'old skool' for this latest episode of TCW. As such, you may not agree with everything you hear on this show. (So what else is new, right?) But I can all but GUARANTEE you some solid takeaways that WILL take your game to the next level. And if you haven't snagged your FREE copy of Twiduction from http://www.twiduction.com, there's still time. Get the e-book and get subscribed to the newsletter--all in one easy step. === HELP US SEND THE M