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We talk about communication ALL THE TIME, but rarely in one episode. This definitely isn’t everything, but if you struggle with communication, this may help you out a bit. In this episode: Announcement: Friday... The post Our Top Tips for BDSM Communication appeared first on Loving BDSM.

There’s no single style of D/s relationships. Not everyone wants 24/7, and not everyone wants something sexual. In this quick episode, we run down a few common styles or “ways” of setting up your... The post Podcast Minisode 7: Different Styles of D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Dom drop (or top drop) happens. Just as submissives undergo the highs and lows of their BDSM experience, so do Dominants. In this week’s minisode, we share a few reasons why it can happen.... The post Podcast Minisode 6: Why Dom Drop Happens appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Erotic humiliation aka humiliation play isn’t for everyone. And even people who enjoy it, don’t enjoy all aspects of it. If you’ve heard of it but don’t know what it is, or you’re interested... The post Podcast Minisode 5: Erotic Humiliation Basics appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This episode is completely inspired by a few Twitter threads/conversations we’ve seen recently, mostly by kink educator Ignixia. She’s been tackling some serious misconceptions in BDSM, and that got us thinking about the things... The post Busting BDSM Myths and Misconceptions appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We get asked all the time for ideas on what kinds of things you can do in a long distance D/s relationship, sexual and non-sexual. This week’s episode is a quick rundown of different... The post Podcast Minisode 4: Tasks in Long Distance Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We use the term “cheering up” but another good word could be “pleasant distraction.” These are the moments when you get your partner to come out of their bad/worried/tense mood for a moment and... The post On Cheering Each Other Up appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In this week’s minisode, I’m breaking down the big three safety philosophies in BDSM. If you’re trying kinky things or exploring power exchange with a partner, you need a safety strategy. Pick the one... The post Podcast Minisode 3: Safety in BDSM appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Y’all. We’re exhausted (aren’t we all)?! And we just didn’t have it in us to come up with a topic and ramble about it for 90 minutes. So we put out the call for... The post This Week: A Rapid-Fire Q&A appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Is this list exhaustive? No. Does it explain every nuance of submission on the entire spectrum of a power exchange? Also no. But for anyone who believes there’s only “one way” to be a... The post Podcast Minisode 2: Submission Types appeared first on Loving BDSM.

We’re keeping it fun and light this week and providing an actual thought exercise! Using the concept of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, we figure out our hierarchy of kinks. Feel free to play along... The post Figuring Out Our Hierarchy of Kinky Needs appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In the first of our podcast mini-sodes, I’m sharing a rundown of different types of BDSM collars, for those who find collars important to their power exchange and kinky fun. Enjoy! A big thanks... The post Podcast Minisode 1: BDSM Collars appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week’s topic was inspired by a tweet and someone else’s questions about compatibility (Thanks, Darling Nikki!). It got us thinking about it in our own relationship. We’re not sharing “tips” or “wisdom” here,... The post Compatibility in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Life is…weird, hectic, stressful. And we’ve learned (over the years) that when we spend time with our kinky community, we often feel better, We hope you do, too. With that in mind, we’ve decided... The post Special Announcement: Let’s Distract Ourselves! appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Buying new BDSM gear and toys is a lot of fun. And we both buy and sell kinky fuckery items all the time. But you don’t need money to get kinky. Your own imagination... The post Getting Kinky on the Cheap appeared first on Loving BDSM.

It’s still early days for many of us in terms of working from home, social distancing, and the impact of COVID-19 will have on us as individuals and in our D/s relationships. Consider this... The post The Impact of COVID-19 on D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

This week’s topic was inspired by a conversation with one of our kinky patrons who decided to focus on friends in the kink community while she’s single. While “friends first” isn’t a requirement for... The post Being Friends First in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

How did it take us 200-plus episodes to FINALLY discuss smart-ass masochists (SAMs), brats, and sassy submissives? We don’t know either! But here we are! In this episode: Subscribe to our newsletter! What is... The post SAMs, Brats, and Sassy Submissives appeared first on Loving BDSM.