Synopsis
BOND, The Brotherhood Organization of a New Destiny, is a nonprofit dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man," nationally recognized and founded in Los Angeles in 1990 by Jesse Lee Peterson, pastor, counselor, radio & TV host, and author. http://rebuidingtheman.com 800-411-BOND (that's 800-411-2663).
Episodes
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All of your sins are washed away | Church 5/26/24
26/05/2024 Duration: 02h14minDo the assignment? It's just a thought! Gentleman afraid of mama! Which is easier: "I'm a sinner," or sins wiped away? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 26, 2024 Assignment from last week (5/19/24): Know this week anytime you feel something, that it's just a thought — not you, and not real! Biblical Question: Are you a self worshiper? Question during the week: Which is easier: to say you're a sinner, or to say your sins have been washed away? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Walking. Memorial Day? Welcome, first-timers. * (0:06:05) Do the Assignment? It’s just a thought! * (0:15:48) Live w/o anger? W/ Jesus's help? (Assignment feedback) * (0:26:46) Setbacks in working on self? Believed a thought. Come back to present * (0:31:42) How important are thoughts? * (0:33:59) 30yo afraid of evil mother! A "gentleman" with women! * (0:44:39) Gal: Covering up crazy. Stop trying to guilt. Raymond on thoughts. * (0:47:43) Hake, JLP: Thoughts are unimportant. Become a no-thinker. * (0:49:31) Lady, they don't care about yo
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The Effect of Words | Archive 7/11/10
22/05/2024 Duration: 55minLive with no expectation. Your purpose will find you. People are getting lost in words, but don't realize they're lost! Let the truth be revealed to you. Archive Sunday Service, July 11, 2010 — JLP talks about living your purpose without expectation or idea of what success is. Everybody's trying to be like Oprah! Don't look for your purpose. Your purpose will find you! Jesse mentions his "Seven Guaranteed Steps to Spiritual, Financial and Family Success" guide. Stay with prayer — check out the Silent Prayer. Jesse also recounts talking on Sean Hannity's program with a loud-mouthed Leo Terrell! In a marriage, let them talk, and don't get pulled in! Words are messing with people's minds! Words prevent people from seeing they have no peace, and don't know God's truth! But they'll bash people over the head with it! People do the craziest things based on intellectual learning about "the truth" that they've picked up! You're never supposed to hold onto words! You become a prisoner of words! Don't try to convince pe
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Why don't you drop thoughts and feelings? | Church 5/19/24
19/05/2024 Duration: 02h05minSean's leaving! You can't know others. Why don't you drop thoughts and feelings? What does evil look like inside of you? Assignment: It's just a thought! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 19, 2024 Sean the producer is leaving! He gives a nice talk… Two weeks ago, Biblical Question: Can you ever really know another person? Do you ever deal with fear? Why don’t you drop the thoughts and feelings? This past week's Biblical Question: What does evil look like inside of you? Assignment: Know this week anytime you feel something, that it's just a thought — not you, and not real! New Biblical Question: Are you a self worshiper? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk / Welcome* (0:04:22) Sean the producer's leaving! Parting words…* (0:27:08) Sean's BQ: If you know yourself, do you know others? * (0:31:43) JLP on BQ: You can never know another person's heart. * (0:33:38) JLP: When you wake up, don't tell anyone. It's all ego. * (0:37:23) JLP: Reelz documentary: Third FBI spy for the Soviet Union * (0:4
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The Spirit of Deceit | Archive 6/27/10
16/05/2024 Duration: 01h43sHusband-wife becomes father-daughter? Women lead when men fail. Blind Christians justify sin! "You are of your father the Devil." Archive Sunday Service, June 27, 2010 MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsTIME STAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome! * (01:01) Agree wives become daughters? No? * (07:21) Letter: Spirit of God in father/husband (re: 6/20/10) * (08:28) Parents not an example. World/schools switch roles. * (10:06) Mother took the lead when husband didn't? * (12:15) Look at the black community: Women leading * (13:07) Airplane story: Stop arguing with your wife! (Men afraid!) * (15:17) Men cheating on wife! Fear. Childless. * (17:46) Mothers vs Fathers taking kids to church * (21:04) Empty words from the Bible, lost preachers! (Radio interview) * (23:38) Raymond: Do people want to be blind? * (24:48) Husband rules with anger? Preacher woman?! Cowardly men! * (29:14) Story: Man needed his woman to motivate him. * (31:02) Salvation: Overcoming the mother's spirit. * (32:33) John
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What is real power? | Church 5/12/24
12/05/2024 Duration: 01h59minWife "wants" to obey husband, but won't! 20yo gal's smarter than many men. You're not in control: Never done wrong! Real power: When you're you, no anger/fear. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 12, 2024 — Happy Mother's Day! ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, May 16, 2024, 7 PM at BOND https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk (Palestine, Israel) — Welcome! * (0:05:39) Where you been, Mimi (Mae Mae)? * (0:09:01) Wife wants to obey, but husband doesn't! * (0:17:33) Wife stays on YouTube, won't pray, loves her hell! * (0:28:29) 20yo gal: Alpha nutcases on videos. Forgive father, mother.* (0:45:45) Her mother: Working on yourself? Father dead to me * (0:48:46) Two guys: Forgiving mother. Getting rid of fear/anger (Brothers) * (0:59:16) You've never done wrong. Spirits in imagination control you. (Woman, young man) * (1:09:35) Man: Not in control of anything. Women want to obey * (1:14:37) No control in life? Many stupid, weak men. (20yo gal, feedback)
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Don't Run from Your Hell | Church 5/5/24
05/05/2024 Duration: 02h07minPeople speak on anger. Slaves to thoughts. Love your Hell. There is no "you." Watch your thrills. Can you ever know another? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 5, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Rough start! * (0:02:57) Jason (sp) 10-mins (No friends, Anger) * (0:20:42) Chy (sp) 10-mins (Small, Polite, Fake? Angry past) * (0:32:23) Man 5-mins: Anger, spinning wheels at churches * (0:37:19) About a woman not ready for the message * (0:42:39) Work on you. * (0:46:22) First-timer: Real you, nothing you can imagine * (0:49:26) BQ: Can you ever really know another person? * (0:51:49) Fidgety man: All are slaves to thoughts. Go dumb. Love your Hell. * (1:01:37) Do you see your Hell? "Striving to be better"? * (1:07:50) Stuck in a loop. Hate working out. * (1:12:44) "I'm making myself bad." There is no you! …Just a thrill. * (1:20:02) Just a thrill! People don't want relationships to work! (Jason) * (1:27:32) More BQ: Ever really know another? (Smoke on it till next Sunday) * (1:36:17) What did you learn? * (1:
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Which… Being Something Or Doing Something? | Church 4/28/24
28/04/2024 Duration: 02h56sWhich… Being or doing? You work on yourself? Be present. Doing will follow. Listening to the Devil: STOP IT: trusting thinking, taking care of mama, teaching, identifying! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 28, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday of the month, May 2, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk * (0:03:43) Anybody have a life? * (0:06:20) Angry at lies? Your own? * (0:12:37) Working on yourself? Climb the mountain. It gets harder. * (0:24:58) Anyone ever held you back? * (0:33:27) BQ: Which are you most interested in: being something or doing something? * (0:57:09) How much time do you work on yourself? * (1:00:55) JLP on BQ: You want to be it. Doing will follow. (Be present, work on yourself.) * (1:04:30) Listening to the Devil? (Aim to be nothing, Seeking who I am…?) * (1:18:38) Does it cross your mind you're nothing? * (1:20:52) JLP: Let it go, what I say. Devil will repeat thoughts of "truth," pretending
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Is your family important to you? | Church 4/21/24
21/04/2024 Duration: 02h07minWhat's your impression of your family? Are they important to you? Why? It's natural to leave them! BQ: Do you have a fear of criticism? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 21, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk (Awkward start) * (0:03:18) Welcome, first timers! Bald or Fro? * (0:10:11) Impression of your family? "Drug addict"… * (0:22:46) Is family important to you? Why? * (1:11:06) Do you live near your parents? * (1:18:48) JLP: It's natural to leave family * (1:29:11) Feedback: Family, independence, failure/success * (1:39:25) More: Sean, "culture," missing family… * (1:41:44) Armenian wants to return. "Missing" is pure evil. * (1:53:58) BQ: Do you have a fear of criticism? * (2:01:51) JLP: Overcome words. BQ… Being or doing? (Closing) CLIPSAfraid of criticism? Overcome words. (5-min) YouTube | Rumble See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/is-your-family-important-to-you-church-4-2
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Why do you call yourself a sinner? | Church 4/14/24
14/04/2024 Duration: 02h08sEthan Crumbley's parents in jail for son's actions! Are you a sinner? Christ said your sins are wiped away. Bear the cross. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 14, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, April 18, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk, welcome * (0:03:30) Ethan Crumbley parents in jail (feedback) * (0:23:06) Govt punishing parents (more feedback) * (0:36:48) Biblical Q: Why do you call yourself a sinner? * (1:00:17) BQ: Doug, Joel… Hake, Sean * (1:05:31) Jesus said all your sins are wiped away (BQ) * (1:12:15) JLP: 'Mother Teresa'; Identities; Not a sinner (BQ) * (1:29:47) JLP: Bear the cross; Forgive; Renew mind (BQ) * (1:44:07) Feedback: Not a sinner * (1:52:36) Closing advice, new BQ: Fear of criticism? CLIPSYour sins are forgiven. (9-min) YouTube | Rumble Gov't put parents in prison for 15yo son's actions (31-min) YouTube | Rumble See Recent and Archive clips playlists on BOND YouTube, or a
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What connects you with the physical world? | Church 4/7/24
07/04/2024 Duration: 02h08minMen's Forum assignments. Biblical Questions: What do you value in life? "Family?" What connects you with the physical world? Thoughts! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 7, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:01) Men's Forum Assignments: Lunatic. "Prepare." * (0:10:17) Past BQ: What do you value in life? "Family" * (0:19:06) Disagree: "Reciprocate." Do you love your neighbor? * (0:25:49) Why doesn't God answer your prayers? Praying to the Devil * (0:30:23) Know God? Love vs Anger. Forgive your mother.* (0:40:41) Knowing God? Anger, Sin; Prayer, Forgiveness * (0:46:38) BQ: What connects you to the physical world? * (1:02:35) More on BQ: Sean, Hake, values, pleasure, feelings * (1:11:07) JLP on BQ: Overcome thoughts, overcome the world. * (1:19:00) JLP: Defining the Devil, his nature (Examples) * (1:29:33) Feedback: Love, marriage, God's thoughts/plans * (1:39:27) The Devil has fear. Ego death story. (Feedback: Bible?) * (1:47:18) Don't get a thrill. Can't think about God! * (1:
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No One Has Morals and Values (Easter Service) | Church 3/31/24
31/03/2024 Duration: 02h05minEveryone is insane. Nobody has morals and values. What Easter means (John 5: 25, 3: 16-17) Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 31, 2024 — Happy Easter! ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday of the month, April 4, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:01:40) Welcome, first-timers! * (0:02:54) Raymond: Francis Scott Key? * (0:04:09) Conservative parents, transgender: No identities * (0:11:27) Insane asylum conversations (...mother and son) * (0:24:20) Assignment follow-up: Drop your morals and values * (0:41:19) I try not to judge myself. Anger? (Joel, Nick… Assignment) * (1:03:59) JLP: Nobody has morals and values (...disagree?) * (1:14:31) What does Easter mean to you? * (1:20:48) Easter? Your mama told you that! (More feedback) * (1:27:15) Bible: John 5: 25 Dead hear; John 3: 16-17 Not to condemn * (1:36:14) JLP on Easter: Amazin', Christ went to Hell, bought us back * (1:51:52) New BQ: What connects you to the physical w
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Do You Have Morals and Values? | Church 3/24/24
24/03/2024 Duration: 01h58minPalm Sunday! Conservative parents, liberal children. See yourself, take the pain, forgive late mothers. Drop your morals and values. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 24, 2024 Today is a special day! Palm Sunday! (They loved Jesus, and then they hated him.) Children of conservative parents vs liberal children… (JLP did not finish his point on this.) Biblical Question: Do you have morals and values? If so, where did you find them? Did you work on yourself this week? (How do you work on yourself?) How do you forgive a mother who died? Two ladies struggle with this. You are not a sinner, nor saint. (Thoughts?) It's not God judging you. Homework Assignment: Give up your morals and values. (We did not discuss the past Assignment: Get rid of all your heroes. Trust no one.) TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk (Women’s Forum… Rough start!) * (0:03:15) Today is a special day! Palm Sunday (love then hate) * (0:09:04) Children of conservative parents, young people turning liberal * (0:18:11) Are yo
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The Way You Think Vs the Way You Are | Church 3/17/24
17/03/2024 Duration: 02h02minDid you do the assignment? No one has love. You are alone. God's mind is clear and present. God's love is understanding, not emotional. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 17, 2024 Nobody really did the Assignment, so we're all re-assigned for this week: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one. So we discuss the Biblical Question: Can you see the contradiction between the way you think vs the way you are? No one loves anyone. Jesse gives examples (including Biden's wife). You're all alone — even given "friends," marriage, etc. People discuss stress and letting go. A mother joins us with daughters who've attended for some time. Why did God give us a mind? God's mind is clear, and God's love is understanding. The human mind is dark, and human love is emotional / hate. New Biblical Question: Do you have morals and values? If so, where did they come from? ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, 7 PM at BOND in L.A., March 21, 2024 https://rebuildingtheman.com/events TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00)
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Do You Know God? Who Is God? | Church 3/10/24
10/03/2024 Duration: 01h57minDo nothing, ego dying terror! Layers of demons! Suffering injustice? You've never had trauma. If you think you know God, you don't! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 10, 2024 ASSIGNMENT: Get rid of your heroes! (How many do you have?) NEW Biblical Question: Is it fair to believe a woman?* *NOTE: We changed the Biblical Q on Monday (since Jesse answered it Sunday by telling where he got it). New-new Biblical Question (given Monday on the radio show): Can you see the contradiction between the way you think and the way you are? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) (Tech issues... Shirt color…) Welcome to Church! * (0:07:22) Doing nothing, ego dying: "Complete terror!" Satan talking * (0:13:51) Lady: You still have anger. Thoughts, emotions. Stay with it. * (0:19:08) Govt just like us. People unmasked. In quiet, truth catches up. * (0:24:43) Peeling back layers: ice cream story; filled with demons (Mae Mae / Mimi) * (0:31:00) Endure: spiritual, ego death. Watch yourself, not your son. (Alex)* (0:35:23) People turn
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What Is Hell? | Church 3/3/24
03/03/2024 Duration: 02h05minTell us about your fears. Shy guy on-stage. Man loves his Hell, walks out. That's all of us. Hell: Still wanting to be someone. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 3, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday of the month, March 7, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A., CA https://rebuildingtheman.com/events TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Dog raincoat story / SILENT TWO MINUTES (SORRY) * (0:06:23) Attitude. Men, dogs are weak. A man should be tough. * (0:11:47) JLP: When you wake up, don't tell anyone. * (0:15:44) Tell us about your fears (Man, woman) * (0:25:34) Shy guy comes on-stage, unconscious * (0:40:21) Ladies fear husband leaving (...JLP: Never take sides) * (0:53:39) Man loves his Hell (family drama). How do you know you care? * (1:04:43) Feedback for man (he gets up and leaves); That's everyone. * (1:15:14) Sit through it. (Employee fight story) "I'm not as bad as him." * (1:22:04) Can't you help others wake up? No. Is God mad/sad? * (1:30:17) Biblical Q: What is Hell? ("Women.") * (1:42:36) Gal on-stage
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What's Trapping You? | Church 2/25/24
25/02/2024 Duration: 01h55minBeing unconscious is like hiding in an attic. When he healed the man, why did Jesus say not to tell anyone? Thoughts are trapping you. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 25, 2024 A woman and her daughter were annoyed at a drunk husband/father. Should we have compassion for the handicapped? Emotions are evil, ladies! JLP jotted down some notes: Being unconscious is like hiding in the attic while your house is being robbed (by thoughts). Being conscious makes sense. Being unconscious makes no sense! Jesus healed a man, and said not to tell anyone. Why? (It won't let you say you don't know!) Human beings are evil — they try to make one another doubt what they know, and try to teach others. Biblical Question: What's trapping you? Your thoughts — are your enemy! More JLP notes: Jesus and the heart — an angry heart is dead. There is good and there is evil. Don’t let liars cover up good and evil. New Biblical Question: What is Hell? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk (Welcome to Church!) * (
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You Are Not a Sinner | Church 2/18/24
18/02/2024 Duration: 02h07minAre you a sinner? No, nor saint! Satan will try to get to you through others. What is your personality? None! Those are demons, not you! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 18, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:03:54) Never try to convince anyone* (0:05:04) Don't come to be taught.* (0:05:58) First-timer forgave parents* (0:08:30) Dogs' feelings. Thrills, "possessed" (one-minute talk, response) * (0:13:05) Woman cries, to forgive mother, dead father * (0:20:44) Checking out BOND. Joel wasn't paying attention* (0:24:19) "Trolling"? Are you a sinner? Why do it again if God forgives you? * (0:28:31) Together 14 years, he won't propose * (0:47:25) Stay out of it between mother and grandmother * (0:51:50) She's lustful. Fights a lot with mother * (0:58:31) More sinners (smoking, drinking, Women's Forum, trying into Hell) * (1:08:24) How will you grow up finding comfort in your brother? * (1:20:34) JLP: Satan busy inside you: Betrayal * (1:30:30) JLP: Your sins are forgiven. * (1:3
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Do You Know You're Evil? | Church 2/11/24
11/02/2024 Duration: 02h08minDo you know you're evil? Admit your sin, the nature in you. Jesus dealt with evil demons in his body, same as us. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 11, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday, Feb 15, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk * (0:03:59) Q: Spiritual vs practical things: A thin line? * (0:09:30) JLP: Ego involvement. Dog coats * (0:14:46) I don't "hate" my mother! Was agitated at the term. * (0:23:38) You are pure evil. Do you know you're evil? Cover-up. * (0:31:22) How do you deal with your evil wife? (Wife speaks too) * (0:38:46) Evil men, women: thoughts, Hell * (0:44:54) Wife-husband, Forgive, Pray (more evil people) * (0:53:56) Raymond, Alex, and an evil newcomer * (1:02:26) Do you ever give in to identities? Prayer: Stay with it! * (1:07:24) Joel, Nick, more devils… Do you make choices? * (1:14:22) Lemme talk to Satan. Gasp! Jesus! (Catty comment story) * (1:18:57) Mimi and sister last week: No we
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Are You Afraid You're Not Going to Make It? | Church 2-4-24
04/02/2024 Duration: 02h12min"Nefarious" movie: Possessed with personalities. The Devil works to keep you unconscious. Uncertainty: Afraid you're not going to make it? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, February 4, 2024 TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Welcome to Church! Alex's health. Rene's mother * (0:07:19) JLP: Spiritual battle: Preacher with "righteous anger" * (0:13:10) JLP, Sean: "Nefarious" movie: You are possessed. * (0:20:35) JLP: Switch personalities suddenly? ("Nefarious"/possessed) * (0:24:44) Devil works to keep you unconscious (Speaking unconsciously, Randy) * (0:33:35) So much you don't know about yourself (Silly "regret," Sean) * (0:36:02) Buzz over Taylor Swift: All for the thrill. (Kanye, Britney Spears) * (0:40:40) What did I say? (4-min assignment, teeth grinding, catch yourself) * (0:45:47) If you think you're conscious, let that lie go. (Sit 4-minutes, do Silent Prayer) * (0:52:35) Thrills: Kissing in public. Giving bums dollars. Do in secret. (Joel) * (0:56:11) Nick's question on uncertainty (Feedback) * (1:06:53) Joe
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What Ties You to Your Parents? | Church 1/28/24
28/01/2024 Duration: 02h01minWant for nothing: Let thoughts torment! Sisters' resentment: Hard to forgive. What ties you to your parents? Thoughts. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, January 28, 2024 — A woman says she cried at a Civil Rights museum in Alabama. Jesse shares history from Jim Crow days he lived and knew. Our theme for 2024: Want for nothing. "Mae Mae" (or "Mimi") can't let go of wanting to control. Let go, and see what happens! Mimi's sister ("Momo") joins us: They resent each other and their mother and father. Yet Momo's receiving the message more calmly than Mimi expected! (She called Hake wanting to "preface" Church for her sister.) Biblical Question: What ties you to your parents? Every human being resents their parents; that's the issue blacks are facing — not racism from whites. You are your world. Thoughts tie you to your parents. New Biblical Question: Are you afraid you're not going to make it? ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday, February 1, 2024, 7 PM at BOND! (Women's Forums are third Thursday of the