Textually Active Podcast

Siri brought us back to autocorrect our "Sharing is Caring" episode. We realize that we may have confused some folks with our polyamory and polygamy discussion, so we brought a special guest, Nae, in order to set the record straight. In this miniepsiode, she explains the difference between Polyamory and Polygamy and much, much more. Listen up, ya might learn something. IG @Textuallyactivepod @_Rezz @Simiashley @Meezyblvd @nomadnae Twitter @textuallyactpod @GetYouARezz @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @_SimiAshley YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCodEtTVMxTBykSLmzo5IopQ Remember to send your listener letters to textuallyactivepod@gmail.com

Man, we just felt like talking about some heaux shit. Multiple partners in 1 night? No shower in between deeds? Made one leave to bring another one in? We’ve been real deep lately, so we needed a night to step back and reminisce on the good ol’ heaux days. (Or the current heaux days *cough* Nick and Simone). WMEZ's Baby Maker of the week- "Admire" by Jermaine Crawford: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/admire/1280569829?i=1280570040 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_Rezz @Simiashley @Meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @GetYouARezz @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @_SimiAshley Remember to send your listener letters to textuallyactivepod@gmail.com

Yerrrrrrrrrr what’s good my guys? We were in New York City and wanted to give y’all a recap of our weekend. We discuss in detail our recording with the He Man Women Haters Club Podcast, A Sissy beef, dilated pupils, powdery noses, and much much more. HMWHC Podcast- Soundcloud : https://soundcloud.com/hemanwomanhatersclub/hmwhc-episode-151-mouses-therapy-session-ft-niki-banksblacktherapistpodcast Apple: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/hemanwomanhatersclub/id1001894354?mt=2&i=1000420574699 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_Rezz @Meezyblvd @EAtheExec @Tieralove (Sissy) @Jpulley (Sissy squared) Twitter @textuallyactpod @GetYouARezz @Meezyblvd @EAtheExec @TieraMone @_getjazzy Remember to send your listener letters to textuallyactivepod@gmail.com

Have you ever convinced yourself that a guy is gay in order to protect yo’ heart? No? That’s just us?!?!? We’re talking 'self-sabotage'. Why do we fuck shit up on purpose? Are we trying to not get hurt? Do we regret self-sabotaging? The crew talks about their history of messing up their fairytales. (Or not). We get an interesting group message that ends with a twist and give y’all something to make love to. Oh! And we had a super special guest this week. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the week- “Nick @ Nite”- Jordan Hush: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/nick-nite/1337736211?i=1337738085 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_Rezz @Simiashley @Meezyblvd @EAtheExec Twitter @textuallyactpod @GetYouARezz @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @_SimiAshley @EAtheExec Remember to send your listener letters to textuallyactivepod@gmail.com

Could you share your partner? What if both of you agree to be polyamorous? This week we talk about monogamy vs. polygamy. What would it take for you to be in a polygamous relationship? Is it even something you would consider? What is the correlation between love and monogamy? Have you ever heard of a 3-1-0? WMEZ's Baby Maker of the week- “S Class”- JNYR: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/s-class/1422830075?i=1422830117 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_Rezz @Simiashley @Meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @GetYouARezz @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @_SimiAshley Remember to send your listener letters to textuallyactivepod@gmail.com

Everyone’s not created equal. People deal with hard times and stress differently, but how do two different people come together in a relationship to support each other? This week we talked about being there for bae emotionally. How do you express that you need emotional support? How do you support bae when they’re going through it? The crew even takes a moment to evaluate how they can communicate their emotions better individually. We wrap up with an action plan and memes of the week. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the week- “Idea 683”- Jayla Darden: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/idea-683/1423175034?i=1423175685 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_Rezz @Simiashley @Meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @GetYouARezz @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @_SimiAshley

We wanted a break from being serious. Sooooo we played Fishbowl! We’d love to tell you that we asked questions that were about more than sex but that would be kind of lie. You’ll get to know each of us a little better (or a lot better *looks at Rezz*). Just listen... truth is, we might be heauxs. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the week- “Something New”- Asheley Turner https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/something-new-single/1426026228 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @getYouARezz @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @_simiAshley

Hey, do you have the time? We know it's #TextualTuesday but in this episode, we discuss what happens when the timing just isn't right. The team starts the Textual Discussion by briefly discussing timing using the critically acclaimed show "Love Is" for context. Following that, the crew discusses what happens when you meet someone during your growing stage?, when's the right time to fall in love?, and what do you do when you meet someone new and you're not on the same level? Of course, we round out the episode with this week's baby maker and the Memes of the week. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the week- “Reasons”- HXRY https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/reasons-single/1422593366 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd

The gang talks about the dating and relationship lessons that they would pass on to their kids. Nick comes in with the most... controversial lesson of them all. We also got a group message regarding a certain TRANS-gression(thanks to #TheGreyArea). Someone in the crew was a little tipsy so things may have gone slightly left. Y’all... we really had good intentions going into this episode SMH. After our #textualdiscussion we get into our baby maker of the week, and we finish up with our memes. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the Week- " Care " - Sherrion https://soundcloud.com/sherri-samone/care-prodkidmarquis IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd

Every relationship is different, some couples don’t go the traditional route. This week we break down how to love through distance. Sometimes you find a bae in a different city and decide to make it work. Maybe babe gets a job in a new city, so what do you do? That’s no problem! *Sha Sharp voice* we will walk y’all through how to make it work. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the Week- "Friends" Mulherin- https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/friends/1409997296?i=1409997803 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd @eatheexec Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd @eatheexec 20SDS Live Show- https://linktr.ee/textuallyactivepod USE OUR PROMO CODE 'SAFETEXT' for a 35% discount

The family gets deep this week. Like, really really deep. Everyone has fears in relationships but we usually don’t sit down and take a second to address them, where they came from, and how they’ll affect us moving forward. What starts as Meezy’s confessions, turns into a therapeutic conversation about all of our biggest fears. WMEZ's Baby Maker of the Week- "Honesty" Pink Sweat$-https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/honesty/1402222872?i=1402222884 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd 20SDS Live Show- https://linktr.ee/textuallyactivepod

These are our confessions.... This week we are talking about CHEATING. What is cheating? Why do we do it? Who cheats the best? Have we ever been caught? What do you do if you get caught? We think you'll be surprised to hear who is a cheater and who isn’t. The gang comes up with a name for YOU guys, the listeners. Nick talks about how to make up for cheating and Meezy shares a crazy scenario. The episode ends with everyone’s favorite meme of the week WMEZ's Baby Maker of the Week- "Fireworks" -Ramiro Chavéz- https://soundcloud.com/ramirochavez-1/07-fireworks-prod-the IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd 20SDS Live Show- https://linktr.ee/textuallyactivepod

The. Heaux. Phase. We’ve all had one. But how did we get there? What keeps us there? Is it necessary? The crew discusses their heaux phases and all the great things that came with it. (Except Nick... Shockingly, Nick is the voice of reason this week). Rez talks about getting to the place of being a wife, Simi explains the key role that is the “food n*gga” and Meezy gives the ladies a harsh reality check. Everyone chips in to help one of our day 1 listeners in this week's Group Message and end with their memes of the week. Baby Maker of the Week- "Room 1994 (Remix)" by Danny Dei feat. Vino World & Pineapple Citi" https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/room-1994-remix-feat-vino-world-pineapple-citi/1360608052?i=1360608063 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd 20SDS Live Show https://linktr.ee/textuallyactivepod

We’re talking closure. How do you get over a relationship? When do you need closure? Can the lack of closure cause permanent damage? Meezy shares why he has never needed closure and everyone shares their own experiences. The listener letter sparks a flame in Simi and everyone shares their meme of the week. Baby Maker of the Week “Let me know”- Jache - https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/let-me-know/1291549506?i=1291550296 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactpod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd 20SDS Live Show https://linktr.ee/textuallyactivepod Get A Chance to Win a VIP Pass to 20 Something Doin' Something here: https://kingsumo.com/g/n9m5rr/20sds-w-textually-active-vip-pass-giveaway

This week, the crew talks about boundaries in situationships. Can they really be “No Strings Attached”? Is it possible to make it out of the friendzone into a situationship? From a situationship to a relationship? How much communication is required to keep the peace? Following this "Ship Show", we have a new Group Message, our memes of the week, and Meezy’s babymaker. Baby Maker of the Week "Right Here Waiting for You" - Herrick & Hooley https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/right-here-waiting-for-you/1386056255?i=1386056260 IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactivepod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd Join our Group Messages by sending your letters to TextuallyActivePod@gmail.com

We’ve got a guest this week! The gang welcomes Laniece from the Doormat Days Podcast. This week the group discusses the pros and cons of being committed. What do we gain? What do we lose? Are there more gains than losses? How does one get a Maxima? Then they discuss a listener letter and finish off with memes of the week and Meezy’s baby maker. Baby Maker of the Week "Trust Me" - Bad Bhabie ft Ty Dolla $ign https://youtu.be/8Opipibemf8 Doormat Days Podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/doormat-days-with-laniece/id1341882518?mt=2 IG @life_sims_sobeautiful @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactivepod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd

This week the gang discusses social media and relationships. When can you post someone that you’re dating? Do you have to ask that person’s permission? How many likes does a girl have to have to get Nick’s attention? Everyone also helps a listener with a 5 min situation and share their memes of the week. One last thing... trying to get pregnant? Meezy’s got a track for you that’s sure to lead to the purchase of a Burberry button-down for your baby shower. Baby maker of the week: "Forever" by Ar’mon & Trey Don’t forget to join in on the conversation on our social media: IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactivepod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd

This week the whole team talks about communication. Rez and Simi explain why they hate “if you want to” and other phrases while the guys talk about how they navigate the “what are we?” question. Everyone weighs in on this weeks listener letter and explain why no one wanted to see Jay Z’s pectorals. Don’t forget to join in on the conversation on our social media: IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactivepod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd

We’re back from our vacation and things are changing. The ladies decided to add some new voices to the show. The #TextualDiscussion is no longer bias. Nick and Meezy from PSBD are here permanently! It’s time to discuss relationships/dating from both a male and female perspective. IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactivepod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd

Big tings a gwan! @Rezz is getting married ya'll! She walks us through her proposal story from this past weekend. The ladies are joined by their PSBD brothers, Nick and Meezy discuss how ladies can secure that ring! Then we wrap up by giving Nick some advice and memes of the week. IG @Textuallyactivepod @_rezz @simiashley @meezyblvd Twitter @textuallyactivepod @RezbeTHEvibe @GrillieBeaman @Meezyblvd