Tossed Salads & Scrambled Eggs

People love making up shit and spreading misinformation. Remember that episode of Moesha when Myles thought he got ol girl pregnant because they slow danced? As we all know, unless they was doin the slow horizontal mambo naked, she's 100% not pregnant! Things like that are the inspiration for this week's episode. This week, I go over a few myths and facts regarding sex

Body image is something I believe most of us struggle with at some point in life. How you feel about the body you have and the individual parts you were given to work with is not always pleasant and happy in a world that constantly has opinions about this, that, and all the others in regards to  what is or isn't "ok" or "normal" or attractive/sexy/beautiful/handsome/whatever. I give some time specifically for the weight end of body image as well as go over some of the different parts of the body women and men have to deal with as far as body shaming goes

It would not be responsible to have open and frank discussions about sexuality if we are not going to talk about the importance of safe sex. In this episode, we discuss the basic facts of STDs/STIs as well the stigma behind this topic and prevention methods. So much information is available yet underutilized and sometimes even used improperly.

Everybody has those things that ,above all others that may be on the list, are most important when out in these dating streets. That list is also malleable. It changes, shifts around, and evolves depending on your life circumstances, your culture, and you as an individual. This week, I go over some of the traits I believe would be on most peoples' lists as well as what my own personal answer to this would be.

In this episode, I explore one of my favorite discoveries since embarking on this journey to becoming a couples counselor and sex therapist: an actual created map of human sexuality! I run down as much of the poster as I can, discussing all the many  fetishes and kinks on the map as well as define quite a few of them.

Yes, you do want to grow up and be a different kind of Toys R Us adult (R.I.P. to the real Toys R Us. So many cherished memories!) ! The toys discussed in this episode are definitely not for kinds. Listen as I explore some of the many options we all have when it comes to bring toys into the bedroom or wherever it is you decide to engage in sexual pleasure, bet it solo or with others. 

In this episode, I discuss some of the different things I've personally learned along the way as well as some things others have experienced that have come to be things that ,if you plan on dating successfully, you probably should avoid doing. 

This week, we are in the realm of guilt, shame, embarrassment, and how these constructs/concepts relate to general life, relationships of all kinds, as well as sexuality.

This week's episode is all about entitlement. That arrogant brash prideful feeling many of us deal with at one point or another that we are due or owed something by virtue of existing or doing the bare minimum. I discuss it in general terms as well as some of the ways it manifests in dating and sex.

This week, it's all about sex! Yes, you read that right! In this episode I discuss sexuality in terms of how little talking directly and out loud we actually do especially if we are talking about sex education. As with all information, when the facts are not talked about often over the course of life due to embarrassment, shame, and guilt around the topic, it becomes easier to spread misinformation as well as myths. I discuss some of these myths as well as share from my own experiences what happens.

On this episode, I tackle two more topics I feel are things in our lives that we will all deal with until the day we die: honesty and consistency in regards to the connections we make. I talk about why I feel they are important, different types of lies, and the consequences being dishonest and/or inconsistent can have on your life. 

This episode focuses on the many ways and instances where men try to impose rules and regulations in regards to what a woman does and does not do with her body as well as discuss other related areas such as respectability politics. This episode was inspired by a segment done in another podcast that I listen to called Drunk Luv Confessions called Kevin Gates Is NOT a Gynecologist! Enjoy!

This week, I discuss from my current knowledge base and point of view some of the occupations and jobs within the realms of or related to sexuality. I make this a baseline for myself as there are so many others I may have missed as well as a wealth of experiences that I personally have not had yet. I hope as the years progress, I learn and experience much more to be able to pass on to the masses!

This was something I decided to do in honor of my late big brother, may he rest in peace. Just a small rant and P.S.A advocating for black men to take care of their physical health as you should with all forms of your health.

This week, I discuss self care. In the general sense and yes in the figurative sense as well. From telling muthafuckas no and meaning it to knowing and loving your own body to satisfaction nd for pleasure, I discuss my views on self care and why I believe it is such an important issue.

This week, I talk about as many facets of how we communicate as I can as well as how we as a people suck quite bad at it as a whole and some communication no-nos. No one is perfect at it even the best communicators in life have missteps and it's all about getting better at it each and every day!

I been gone for a minute so I’m back with the jumpoff! Ok so maybe I’m not back with a jumpoff but I am back with a new episode and I figured if you going to come, I may as well come correct so this episode is about love. What it means to me and my experiences with it, romantic and otherwise.

When folks get bored in these Twitta streets, some topics end up on the timeline over and over again. There is no avoiding them. This week, I discuss some of the more known ones from past to present.

This episode tries to tackle the question of what each sex wishes the opposite knew in regards to understanding them.

This episode touches on topics among which are changing the dynamics of a relationship, should you in those particular situations, and finding out who’s down with O.P.P.