Moms, Coffee And Chaos

Today I'm talking with my first male guest! You guessed it, it's my husband Jonathan. I love talking about mom life but I also wanted to give a shout out to all the awesome dads out there and get a little bit of a different perspective. So I asked Jonathan all the questions and I absolutely love his insight and answers.  I hope this episode encourages you to tell your husband or significant other you appreciate him if you haven't lately :)

Today's episode is another solo episode. This is something that has been on my heart and mind for a while now and I felt it necessary to share. Social media is amazing and has connected me with incredible and encouraging people but if we aren't careful it can be toxic. It can bring us down by comparing our real lives to other's highlight reel, it can make us feel trapped, even obligated to stay and engage in order to not lose followers etc.  In this episode I talk about combating comparison and making sure that social media is helping us, not hurting us. If it is a hindrance or negative thing in your life then guess what, you can limit it or even eliminate it! Do what you gotta do momma! Your happiness and mental health is more important than any # of followers, and I'm sure your babies would agree.  

Desirae said yes to coming on the podcast and sharing her story about her journey to minimalism. Not gonna lie, minimalism seemed kind of extreme to me when I first heard about it but it has really become more and more appealing as we grow our family and continue to grow our collection of Stuff.  I also love her approach as she is all about Realistic Minimalism. Something that works for you and your family, not rules but a way to have more freedom and enjoyment in the things you do have and love. So just hear us out and see if you think it's for you! Find her on instagram @minimalish.desirae Her minimalism course at www.desiraeendres.com/makeroom or www.desiraeendres.com/store PS If you love the podcast and want to support it and help cover production costs, go to www.momscoffeeandchaos.com/podcastsupporters Thank you so much for listening! Have an amazing week!  

This is our story but it's on a topic that I think is needed in today's society. We are told that Waiting Until Marriage is either old fashioned, impossible or silly because you will want to know what you're getting into when it comes to the intimate part of marriage. Well, Jonathan and I, By God's Grace, were able to save ourselves for each other on our wedding night and I don't regret it one bit. So I go through our story about dating, engagement, obstacles, temptation, grief and loss but ultimately we came out on the other end so much stronger for it. So give it a listen! Available on all your podcast platforms!  

Lori Erickson is my first returning guest and I'm so excited to share our convo! Screen time is one of those things no one really wants to talk about because everyone has different opinions and parenting styles which is TOTALLY ok. I figured we would take this opportunity to talk it out and let yall hear our perspectives and experience on balancing all things screen time. Reminder: we are not experts, just mommies who want the best for our kiddos just like all the other amazing mommies listening. So with that said, take away what you will and I hope it helps in some small way!

Hey Mommas!! This week I'm doing another solo episode but it's very different than what I usually do because I share my testimony and what I have been working through ever since becoming a wife and mom. I feel like it's a trap anyone can fall into and sometimes we just need a reminder of what's most important and where our priorities should be. This is a reminder for myself as well but I hope it allows you to get to know me a bit better and also encourages you as well. 

Karen was the perfect person for this interview with all her long distance momming, she's an expert on learning how to do all the things without family, make new friendships and connections and enjoy the time you have with your littles. I hope yall get as much wisdom out of this as I did!

Today I'm Chatting with Malinda Fuller, she's a wife, momma, writer, and we had an amazing convo digging into her new book and what life looks like for her right now. They are onto @thefulleradventure and her book is getting out into the world! She tells us how this book came to be, what inspired her to write it and share what God has placed on her heart. If you struggle with being busy and always trying to keep up, never getting anywhere or feel overwhelmed with life, give this episode a listen! You wont regret it.

This week I'm giving yall the whole story about our big adventure and quick move to NC. Making the decision to move away from my family and the home we have become a family in was one of the hardest decisions we have ever made but I know God's plan is best.  I hope this episode encourages you and helps you in your big life decisions even in just the smallest way. Spoiler alert: this episode is all about how big and awesome our God is, even in the smallest details of our lives. He loves you so much, incase you didn't know :)

This is our final episode in our Enneagram August Series and I'm sad but loved my conversations with Ashton & learned so much! She absolutely loves helping people learn their type and use it as a tool for personal growth-- can you tell she's an Enneagram 2?! haha This week we dive into how we can use the enneagram to become the best parents we can be so tune in and make sure to tell me how you like it!

Today we are talking all about Enneagram and relationships. How each type are in relationships, how to better communicate with those types, what they need in a friend/spouse etc. I loved digging into this topic with Ashton and she agrees it's a topic she gets the most questions about so we are answering those questions for you now! Make sure to follow her on IG @enneagramashton!

Hey Momma! I'm finishing my chat with Ashton going over the remaining 6 types in the enneagram system. I already knew some about the enneagram but continuing to learn so much and Ashton is so knowledgeable and loves using this tool to help people grow & work towards the best version of themselves. Listen in to get the overview and next week we dive into enneagram in relationships. 

Hey Momma friends! I am so excited for the month of August as we will be covering all things Enneagram! Today we start by learning a little background about the Enneagram, what it is and where it came from and how Ashton got into becoming an Enneagram Coach. Then we dive into the first 3 types in the enneagram system. I'm a 1 as you will hear a few times in this episode... sorry about that... but I loved learning about each type and their motivation behind what they do. Can't wait for next week when we explore types 4-9!

It's my final chat with Kirsten and it's a great way to finish out! We talk about sex after having kids, practical ways to make it a priority and I finish by asking Kirsten my 3 closing questions. Enjoy!

Friends!!! Did you know God created sex? And get this... he didn't just create it for procreation... also as a gift for pleasure and intimacy between a husband and wife. So yeah, this week Kirsten Kelly and I are digging into some pretty juicy topics like tips for having more freedom in your sex life, as well as benefits of orgasm... yep, we went there. Then we even talk about how we can work towards raising the next generation to have a healthier view of sex and keep those healthy and appropriate conversations going from a young age. It's definitely a favorite episode of mine, so enjoy!

Ok, so this is a 3 part episode of sooo much good info. Yes, you are correct, it's all about sex. I interview Kirsten Kelly and she shares her personal story with sexual trauma in her past and how she worked through that after getting married. We talk about "Purity Culture" and how it affected our thoughts, feelings and perception of sex leading up to our wedding day. So yeah, it's a pretty amazing convo but let me tell you, there is even more amazingness in Pt 2 & 3 so make sure to Subscribe & check back next Wednesday!

Ready or not here's Solo episode #2!! I talk about 7 things us mommas need to thrive and be the best momma we can be. So that's all the detail I'll give you but I hope you love it and that it encourages you in some way! We all need to give ourselves grace but that doesn't mean we can make changes and daily choices to work towards being the best version of ourselves!

Stacie Vetor shares her story of infertility due to anatomy insufficiencies and how God was with her every step of the way. She tells us how she underwent surgeries to make her dream of Motherhood a reality. She was blessed with her son but was told that she would not be able to have another. Stacie and her husband were looking for a sign from God that the desire in their heart for more children was from him and he gave them an amazing open door to show them that was his will. Spoiler alert! They were blessed with triplet girls, although that pregnancy was a roller coaster of emotion. I absolutely love her story, heart and honesty and can't wait to hear what yall think! Follow me in insta @momscoffeeandchaos and @holleybrick Also check out the website for show notes and all the cute triplet pics!

I know I say it all the time but I love this convo!! Stephanie and I met through good ole instagram and she is seriously so sweet, encouraging, and motivating! She shares a little of her story and her journey to health as a momma of 3 littles with severe food allergies.  She tells us her message she wants to share with the world... hence the title "Fight for your life" and I love it! I hope you love it as much as I do! Make sure to subscribe, share and review to spread the love! Also, definitely look her up on instagram!

Amie is a wife, and momma of 3 sweet little boys and is all about living a non-toxic AKA Crunchy lifestyle. For health and personal/family reasons, shortly before having her babies she decided to switch to all safe, healthy products for her and her family. This seems like it would be a simple decision and of course something that all mommas work toward but the fact of the matter is we all have the best intentions but until you look at the specific ingredients you really don't know what's in it.  Amie explains the dynamic in her family with 3 boys, some super cute stories and how everything you do, from healthy living to your relationship with your husband, really does affect your kids and that they are watching. Check out the website for show notes and a list of Amie's favorite products and brands.